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Even if you miss someone online, you can still begin an IM Chat process on TLL

When you view Whose Online, some of these members may not be available for chat at this time if they have signed off within the last 5 minutes, the user may not be at their computer (within the last 15 minutes) even though they are logged in or the users profile may be picked up by our online social networking system. When a member does not receive the IM connection window, an e-mail is sent to the other member telling them that you have tried to chat using Instant Messenger. This e-mail contains a link to your online photograph and a picture.

Key points about IM Missed Chat:

  1. Wait for the Popup to appear : It may take the system sometime to establish if the other member is available right now or not. So you should wait to see which box appears.
  2. Close the box : You should always remember to close the message box when it appears.
  3. IM Chat Window: You have to let this box load and to begin the conversation with the other member, you should type in your first sentence and press Send.
  4. Access send button If you have difficulty accessing the send button, try expanding the IM window to full page size.
  5. Email sent to the other member: Your profile link and photograph will be sent to the other member so that they can return online or make contact with you through IM or any of the other communications facilities on
  6. You can IM Standard as well as Premium Members : With this facility you can send an IM message or alert to all members on whether they are Standard or Premium Members.

Follow up: Make sure to follow up on any profiles that really interest you by making communication through all the communications facilities available to you.

As a Standard Member, these include:

  • Flirt Messaging
  • Social Network invitation

As a Premium Member, your expanded options are:

  • IM - Instant Chat
  • Skype phone, chat and SMS
  • E-mail Centre
  • Meet your Match
  • Make a Date

If you are still a Standard member, you can upgrade to Premium membership in minutes for only $19.99 for 1 month, $39.99 for 3 months, $69.99 for 6 months or $119.99 for 12 months.

(Above) This box will appear if it is not possible to establish an IM Chat connection with the other member on the Social Network. (Below) When you make contact with other members on our social network you will get two different IM pages, one to begin a LIVE IM Chat and the other sending a message to the other member that you have tried to Chat. An e-mail will be delivered to the other members external e-mail address with your profile links and photo.
Links that you may require:
Using Make A Date
How to use Meet your Match
Instant Messenger on
How to upload new photographs
How to set up Skype
Sample sound profile from Aerosboy
Download Winamp audio player
How to upload your audio profile
Download Audacity audio recorder