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This little facility is where everything usually starts on

This facility allows you to send a number of messages to any member on this site whether Standard member or Premier member (Standard feature). This introduces you to the other member and is usually the 'first step 'to developing a relationship on The other methods are sending an e-mail (Premier only), initiating an Instant Messenger discussion (Premier only) or inviting the other member to become part of your Social Network (Standard feature).

To use the flirt facility simply find a mini profile list such as that found on searches, to show who's online, who's interested etc. and click the heart icon. This red icon can also be found on long profile pages as well as on the gallery pages where it appears in purple. Press this button to send a flirt to the person whose profile the button is on and the flirt page will be displayed. Now choose your flirt message and send it by clicking the send flirt button. You will receive an alert telling you that your flirt message has been sent. The following things happen when you send this flirt message:

  1. Your flirt message will be displayed in the other members in-box showing your profile and the subject of the e-mail (flirt message). They can open this if they are a Premier member.
  2. The other member will receive an external e-mail similar to the one shown in the illustration here in their external e-mail account showing them who has sent the flirt message and indicating to them how to respond to it.
  3. Your profile will appear in the other person's 'whose interested in me' list.
  4. The other member's profile will appear in your 'My Interests' list.

This message should be followed by an Instant Messaging conversation or e-mail correspondence. For this both members will require Premier membership. will soon be making Premier membership available to Thai nationals at a very attractive rate for 6 months and 12 months membership. In the absence of this, right now, we have set our Premier rate at a very competitive level : $19.99 for one month and only $39.99 for a three month membership.

(Above) By clicking the heart button, you enter the flirt facility allowing you to send a number of standard messages to any member on (Below) As well as receiving a flirt message internally, they will also receive an external e-mail alert letting them know of your message.
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